Congrats MiKoh!

This weekend was an exceptionally productive and busy one. Yes. Extremely busy. To top it up, I’m ill. ugh.

Fri was spent with some colleagues @ Minds cafe, left early as i was feeling horid, and snorting & sniffing away… 1/2 of sat was spent @ simlim square (the earlier 1/2 of sat was spent sleeeeeeping. Whats new). Spent 600bucks on my new CPU, its supposed to be a mid ranged one, enough for basic (aka bimbo) users like myself. So, my Big Screen + my CPU sets me back bout 1K-ish this month. This sucks…….

Went over to Gucci to have my “huahua” fixed. For those who dont already know, HuaHua is my Gucci CHihuahua charm. and her eye popped out!!!! Went to have her replaced, and have my bag re-seamed. Times are bad, think my LV “2510” has to wait till 2010. Then we went over to Vivo to watch Red Clift 2 with the KOK gang…Always good to hang out with a bunch of nonsense old pals. 🙂

Sunday. Today.Sickday.
I had 1/2 a heart to ditch mich’s wedding, and just stay in bed the whole day… but i promised to go… and I WOULD! Dont understand how some ppl can go MIA on their friend’s wedding, or just say they cant go last min… If its a valid reason, then FINE, but u dont just go MIA, or give stupid excuses @ the very last min… It was a church wedding in the afternoon, small congregation, sweet wedding.. could see the excitement in mich’s eyes, think she was hyperventilating most of the time! hahahaa… by the end of the lunch buffet, i was practically tearing and snorting away.. (cuz of my flu of course).. Dashed home, took my med, and concussed till 6, got dressed again, and went over to grand copthorne hotel for the dinner reception. had a nice time catching up a little with excolleagues whom i havent met in eons, i.e. yvonne, carol, lynette, etc etc.

Michelle had a glow tonight. maybe its true when they say that a woman is the prettiest on the day of her wedding! It isnt just about he hair/makeup/dress. its bout that glow in her face, and that twinkle in her eyes, that makes it seem like the world is just one happy place.. at least for this one night. She went through hell for this wedding, all the preparations, the wedding prep course, the sitting arrangement, gowns, photo shoot, etc…. but i guess… its all worth it?

For the man you love, and knowing that you’d be spending the rest of your life with him… i think that would realli bring a glow to your face.

Michelle… You look beautiful today… 🙂
May you have a happy marriage with Edwin 🙂



Mid Week Crisis


There’s something seriously wrong with my comp!? I dont know why all the blogs i go to dates back to April 2008?? like WTF!?

Dad got me a lazy Suzie (is that how its spelt?) For those of u who dont know what that is, it’s like a turntable? like the double-ringged rollers under the big turnaround chinese dinner tables? I got it for my big-ass Monitor, so that i could twist it round to face the bed if need be! 🙂 WooO.. typing from the comfort of my bed now!~ Shiokness. Love dad. can always trust him to be the MAN of the house. ranging from the alltime handy man, aircon fixer, fan washer, oven polisher, chamber maid, toilet cleaner, bulb fixer, lizard catcher, all time chauffer, ex ATM, joker, inspirator, and 10001% all time perfect Dasaaddy.

Love u daddy :)…

Got a great CD to recommend, bought it at the funky CD shop @ marina square, they’ve always got those unplugged / acoustic CD playing on demo, cant help but stop, listen, and buy. Latest buy is of this duet called Absolute Acoustic. They’re songs include all the popular songs by Kylie Minogue, Police, even dear Britney Spears etc etc… but in an Unplugged version. GIves a totally different feel tothe song entirely. GO check it out… Suprisingly refreshing. Good for lounging times as such, after a long day of work, just relaxing, surfing, and listening to music. VERY VERY VERY BAD for listening in the morning. Slows ur actions down by 30mins.. hahaha…

Met Char today for Dinner @ the hippiest place of the west, JURONG POING. hah.. we had Ichiban, and really really really over estimated ourselves. 2 of us, ate 2 sets of Beef sukiyaki and salmon sukiyaki, as well as spicy teriyaki chicken, sword fish, and 3 drinks. Not to mention the 2 X extra soup servings. heh… Had a great time catching up with her, just speaking bout old times, ex colleagues, current shit, etc etc etc. She’d always be a good friend of mine whom i’d go an extra mile for… Friends.. hmm.. guess it does not mean u need to MSG each other everiday, or meet every week… Some experiences shared, and mutual feelings cant be wiped away just by not meeting after some time. at least i feel this way towards SOME friends.. Cha’s one of them, rare few…

Dont see why a friendship should be made out of pretense, and false beliefs, even braggary, false accusations, distrust, lies, going back on your words and false fronts… I’m not forcing my principles on anyone, just dont force me to believe in your make believe world as well… Maybe one day, you’d know that i genuinely care, or USE TO care… and i am proud to say that i was Once a friend… A true one, who wanted what’s good and best for you. You denied me…

GOod night world…. I’m surffering from mid week crisis.

Crisis 09

Guess 2009 isnt’ a good start globally.. Not for my household especially.

I guess i really haven’t felt the full impact of economical condition… No wait. I haven’t been oblivious to the news despite my lack of interest in current affairs. Being in my current work place exposes me to incessant whines and complains about the “bad economy” and “no bonus” etc etc.. but still, it hit me hard when it’s got a direct implication to my household.

How daft could i be, it’s a GLOBAL economic crisis, and how could my family be immuned to it? Guess i’ve been living in a semi-permeable warp of mine, staying constantly intuned with the market conditions when it’s got a implication on a work context, but totally forgetting that it would be impacting my family’s livelihood and my own as well. 😦

Mum came to me n told me to be more prudent with my $$, and spent wisely. she’s not the type that gives lengthy naggy sessions, but she started off in a subtle way by telling me that i have too much clothes. hahaa.. Perfect. She broke the news to me that dad’s gonna have to take a 25% paycut.. *SHIT* … and with that, he’s starting to feel the pinch of all the bills etc etc… I feel like crap. Why? maybe it so happens that i’ve defaulted on this month’s household allowances! not that it’s done on purpose, but its Xmas followed by New Year and all the bzbzbzbz etc etc etc.. that i just forgot!!

Im sure she wasnt saying this just to make me feel bad, but i think its time to contribute more!? She only told me to spend less.. but i feel very very terrible knowing that my parents are going through a stretch just to meet the household bills and spending etc.

Gonna re-do my budgeting, stick to it, and contribute more to the household i guess

Maybe when i finally have my own place, then i’d know how it’s like to be burdened by these stuff. for now, it’s feeling my parent’s burden that’s making me feel bad/sad/concerned/worried.. whatever u wana call it.

Happy 2x Bday!

I refuse to say how old u are… as i know its a secret u wana keep! 🙂
i just hope the day where i change it to 3X will never come! 😛 lol



Not sure how this day will turn out for u… But i’d try my bestest best to make it an enjoyable and absolutely FAN-TaS-TIC one!

I’m pretty excited bout tmr… If no one gives u suprises I WILL, and if no one picks u up.. I WILL TOO!~~ hehehe.. Dont u just love me?

*HuGs & KisseS*

cya in awhile…

Friends… BaHh!!

in some shittily-pissifying mood today. or rather, its just the 2nd half of the day maybe. It prolly isnt gona b the first time i blog about Friends, (or the lack of it) … Im not gonna act like petty loser and say stuff like “who gives a shit bout having heaps of friends” and i dont give a shit even if i lose all my friends in this world…

Its just that… I feel that i’m living in a world where i’m constantly disappointed with people. People whom i call friends… People whom i think are my friends or even best friends… I dont want my life to revolve around just my boyfriend or even family. i need friends too! The more the merrier really…

These days, i’m losing friends quicker than i can say “Hi, my name is Val…err..i…eee…..” .. and WHAM! there goes another lost friendship. like WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH ME!? Am I not there for you when you’re down? Do i not lend a listening ear to you when you’re sad? Am i not the one who cheer u up n have fun with you? or go shopping or chit chat with you when i’m fuckin bz? Why is it that i’m the one trying to be a friend a GOOD friend and it cant be reciprocated??

Its like i’m not askin for a 1001% 24/7 Best Friend, or someone who is “oh-So-Twin” n JUST LIKE ME… Everyone’s entittled to their own views n differences. i just want someone to talk sense, and speak sense, and just listen maybe? And not treat me like i’m wayyyy below priority to their bf! or dont even call for ages, and only “make use” of me when they’re free n have no one else to meet!?!?! what the Fuck do u think i am and treat me for??? Just want u to treat me with a little more respect at times… like listening when i talk to you, and believe me when i tell u that some things are good for you…. or even stupid things like CALL BACK when you promise that you’d call back,and stuff like that…

I dont need to be your number 1 person … just dont make me feel like number 5th (just a random number) person in your life when i’m supposedly to be your “BEST FRIEND”… Come to me when you need to speak or whine… i’d be there if you ever need a “shoulder”… just dont make it seem like i’m so distant from you and we can only have “fun times”…. and when i talk… Please at least listen??? dont take my advises for granted??

Great… i’m incoherent.. why? prolly because i’m talkin about 2 different ppl.. I’m disappointed in the both of you.. Maybe .. once again i’m just disappointed in myself for not being able to keep up a frienship… I’ve lost so many friends. what’s 2 more right?

I’ve just got 1 more to go…. promise i’d b a really nice friend…. as for the others… eric’s right… maybe if we talk it out, things would b fine. I’m not that confrontational. i choose to run… i choose to hide.

Blogging is truly a good avenue for stress relief… type a whole lot of bullshit, tear abit… and i’m feeling much better n not so pent up now.

Had a small chat with a friend… things r back to norm i guess? hmm.. 🙂



Ohhhhh My!

I thought it was gonna be a vampire show, and it turned out to be a romantic flick… hah.. i like it!!! 🙂

the guy Robert Pattinson (aka Cedric Diggory in Harry Potter). I didnt cast an eye on him when he was in harry potter, but now in THIS show its different! his pale ghostly white complexion, red lips, and styled hair just captured me into the entire movie. It really was very romantic when he tried holding back from the girl he like, but succumbed to it all at the end of the day… And the girl had a kind of slapstick humor tt was edgy n quirky, not “off the rack” kinda next door girl.

All in all, i think it’s a wonderful show by my standards (i like predictable shows, without too much fight/gore/nonsensical dialogues/draggy lousy twists in it).

Only drawback is that there doesnt seem to be too much plot and depth in the whole show, with bits n pieces being too lenghy n long winded (tho i like it, cuz its the part on their romance that’s long)… I went into the movie with an expectation of having part 2 3 n 4 coming up really soon, and that sorta made up for the lack of intensity despite the show being slightly over 2 hours long (i think).. or maybe its because i’m @ golden village, and the 20-25mins wait for shows to start are notorious.. Cathay’s more on time. heh.

Cant wait for more… infact.. i just purchased the box set from kino online! PURRRRRRFECT! it cost almost 150, but think it’s gona be a good read. Dont bother asking. i’m not lending it out. call me a selfish prick, but i love having my books in good condition, w/o folded corners, widely opened binds, or even nose-picks inbetween. EugHhh…

Work tmr.. hmm..
That’s life?

Oh my.. sometimes you really wont know what’s your limit till you test yourself wont u??

Worked till 130am on thurs night, and had to be in the office bloody freggin 9am!!! i was tossing even tho its already 3plusAM, and i gave up officially at 615. What better way to start a day than spending to have enough time to make up dress up n moisturize rite!?!?! (bimbo! i know).

Mum just came home from Israel! bought me a set of hand feet body cream n bath salt. *aww* mum knows me well! 🙂 I’ve missed her.. my home w/o mum, and just with dad being the househusband is simply WRONG…..

he’s OVER neat, n OVER tidy (at the wrong things), and he insists that some of my clothes look better CrumPled n wont need any Ironing!!! *HUH!* …

So, the day started off with a tripleshot caramel latte from Spinelli n my beloved cheese bun from Mirana… That explains why im gaining weight.. I was very very very hyper the whole morning, and feeling simply “Uppity”.. (if u know what i mean) which i think you prolly dont. Had to make a mental check to tone down… strange… for a Non-regular coffee drinker. the triple shot worked wonders!

i shall NOT be a coffee addict!!! i do have a secret deep dark addiction to GOOD coffee tho.. I.e. YES to starbucks, YES to Spinelli, YES to Leos, NO to coffeebean, NO to coffee club. and on the more Local end, its YES to Mr. TehTarik, YES to AhMei (only the chinese aunty), YES to Golden Shoe, NO to Coffee&Toast … THERE U GO! Best of raffles’s kopi n TeH places. 🙂

After a NOT SO smooth sailing day at work, didnt manage to meet M for dinner tho 😦 Went for a hair treatment with PP to a salon @ Circular road + Burger king for dinner. ehh… she is… still the same. hah…

On my way back, (once again), had the good fortune of having PK on the phone with me.. aWwww.. all the JuiCy updates n gossips…. sighh..

V: Dont u think its easiest to cheat on your bf n b wif a girl? just say u’re BEST FRIENDS!
PK: The guy would be damn sad…
V: If im gonna cheat, do u think id even give a shit!?

PK: Ehhh… next time if we cannot get married, we be “Together” la! (as in BI)
V: Tho the chances are REALLY slim, i doubt i wanna risk it. NO! we will not…. *ScOwLs*
PK: hummm.. How bout Stay together??
V : I want a dog.. Can?
PK: CAN! but i thought u always wan dog n cat?
V: U REMEMBER! *Touched* OSO can la!
PK : CAN! u take care la!~~~
V: NO! F*K off
PK: Dont want.. SUAH…
V: FINE!!!! im home… BYEEE!!!

i.e. M better maaaarrrreeeeeyyyy mee! cuz i just blew my chances of being BI with my best pal.
PK: If we cant get